MOVIE · 2023
You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah
ComedyDrama104 min
Stacy and Lydia have spent years picturing blowout bat mitzvahs, but their plans start to fracture when a popular boy and a pileup of middle school drama get between them. What begins as shared excitement turns into a friendship feud, with parties, school status, and family expectations all pulled into the mess. Sunny Sandler and Samantha Lorraine are at the center of the fallout, while Idina Menzel and Adam Sandler fill out the adults trying to keep up as the celebrations veer off course. The story keeps its focus on the social stakes of being 13, where every slight feels public and every invitation matters.
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